What nickname does Gabrielle Union hate being called?
Dwyane Wade may be a basketball legend, but when it comes to his wife, Gabrielle Union, he’s learned some lessons the hard way—especially about what not to call her. During a candid appearance on Today with Jenna & Friends on July 9, Wade revealed that the actress has a strong aversion to one commonly used nickname.
“I called her ‘Gabby,’” Wade admitted, catching himself mid-sentence. “She would not like that.”
Apparently, “Gabby” is a nickname Union can’t stand—and Wade knows better now. “It’s a long story,” he said with a laugh, declining to go deeper into why that particular name doesn’t sit well with his wife of 10 years.
So what nickname does he use instead?
While “Gabby” is off-limits, there’s one endearing name that Gabrielle Union embraces wholeheartedly: Nickie. It’s a family nickname derived from her middle name, Monique. Dwyane Wade shared that his children affectionately call her Nickie too.
“When I proposed to her, the sign we put up said ‘Nickie,’” Wade recalled. “Her family calls her this—not Gabrielle Union the actress, but Nickie—and that was the name we used when we were introducing her to my family.”
By using a personal, family-rooted name rather than her public persona, Wade helped Union ease into her new role in his life—and in his children’s.
Why the nickname mattered in their blended family
Dwyane Wade emphasized that introducing Union to his children was the biggest step in their relationship—not just romantically, but emotionally.
“She didn’t sign up to be a stepmom when we started dating,” Wade said. “It was a little rough early on.”
At the time, Dwyane Wade had full custody of his children from a previous relationship: Zaire (now 23) and Zaya (18). He had also adopted his nephew Dahveon Morris (21) in 2011, making family dynamics even more complex. Union was stepping into a deeply personal chapter of Wade’s life—one that was filled with both love and legal battles.
Wade went through a very public custody battle with his ex-wife, Siohvaughn Funches. “My kids are so a part of my life,” he said, noting that Union entered the picture with full awareness of the challenges ahead.
The bond Union built with Wade’s kids
Despite the rocky start, Dwyane Wade said Union grew into the role of stepmother with grace—especially when it came to Zaya.
“Zaya was 3 years old at the time, and now she’s 18,” Wade said. “To be able to grow with each other—that’s kind of like her first kid.”
Although Union also helped raise Wade’s older sons, her relationship with Zaya was formative for both of them. Wade praised the unique bond the two share, calling it “special” and transformative for their family.
Their daughter Kaavia and expanding their family
The couple went on to welcome daughter Kaavia James in 2018 via surrogacy. Known for her expressive face and viral captions on Instagram, Kaavia has become a fan favorite among Union and Wade’s followers.
The couple also navigated other personal chapters, including Wade fathering son Xavier Wade (now 11) with longtime friend Aja Metoyer during a brief separation from Union. Through all the ups and downs, Wade credits Union for remaining steady and loving—especially as a mother figure.
“She’s been incredible,” Wade said, making it clear that Union’s support and resilience have been vital in their journey.
How the Wades found balance in their family life
While Dwyane Wade and Union are now admired as a model blended family, the former Miami Heat star didn’t sugarcoat how difficult it was in the beginning.
“It’s good to see how everything turned out, but at the beginning—woooo, it was rough,” he admitted.
But with communication, love, and mutual respect, they’ve created a stable and supportive environment for all five of their children. Wade’s transparency about the challenges of blended families offers a refreshing look into the effort required behind the scenes of what now looks like a picture-perfect household.
- Dwyane Wade revealed on Today with Jenna & Friends that Gabrielle Union dislikes being called “Gabby.”
- Instead, she embraces the nickname “Nickie,” a nod to her middle name Monique.
- Wade used “Nickie” to help Union integrate into his family, especially with his children from previous relationships.
- Union stepped into the role of stepmother during a challenging time, earning praise from Wade for her grace and bond with his kids.
- Despite early struggles, the couple has found a strong family rhythm, now raising five children together.